Men: Keep Your "Feelings" To Yourself (Or Talk Only Amongst Fellow Men About Them...)

It's no secret: women hate "weak men".

All things being honest here it should read women instinctually hate weakness in men that then the actual men themselves.

That said, here's another "branch" of the subject on women's contempt for "weakness in men".

A major challenge and struggle in life all men must endure is to be able to personally "deal with their feelings" without going into fearful despair and hopelessness over their lot in life.

Women "in public" say they want a man to "share his feelings" but in all honestly (and I speak this from sore in-depth, raw personal experience here) in REAL LIFE REALITY the real truth on this is women HATE a man who "shows his actual feelings" to her. She sees it as effeminate "complaining" and WEAKNESS in the man and it actually is if the man grovels in self-pity of himself.

Don't do it if you really can I advise. Just shrug off her "ungeniuene" offers as "Nah, I'm just tired and need to get my mind clear" or some such comment; change the subject of conversation if you need to or say you have something you need to do and leave her there to go on.

Don't "fall for it" when a woman constantly asks you "how are you?" to sniff out your innermost feelings and emotions if you are feeling sad or depressed; it is WEAKNESS she instinctively does not like and is not attracted to.

If you the man go down the whole tribe suffers; so be strong and put on a "good, happy face" and be that likable fun-loving man people want to be around.

Now, no man is perfect and without weakness in the flesh in this earthly life. Only God Almighty, Lord Jesus Christ Himself was the Perfect, Strongest Man that walked the face of the earth and even He dealt with deep personal sorrow, and anguish of heart but He didn't "melt down" wallowing in self-pity of "woe-is-me" attitude like we men sinners do when we are "in pain".

I've just felt led to share this very important reality of life with my fellow brothers of Christ and men in general concerning women in society.

It's not at all "bad" that women hate "weakness in men" as I hate "weakness in myself" as well as a MAN.

Thing is, the flip side of the coin is women in reality do not have the emotional capacity to give "empathy" to said men they instinctively categorize as "weak". Men do.

Therefore the burden falls to the MEN to help and "pick up" our fallen brothers in distress when they are down and not "kick them down" as bullies do. That's not the "Christ-like" response to those in despair.

Now there's so much more to this subject I need to elaborate on and explain to many young men and boys who are absolutely clueless in life with dealing with real life women in the real life real world that it's on my heart and spirit heavily to discuss upon.

Knowledge without real world application is futile. *APPLIED KNOWLEDGE* is *POWER* O brethren.

Lord-willing, I've been quite silent on the development of this blog for a very long time now but I have not at all forgot this work I've started in the Lord. I intend to finish it by His Grace.

So... for the sake of this post, the "moral" of this brief post, men, is for us to "personally manage our own deep feelings in PRAYER unto the Lord Jesus Christ Who Knows the pain, hurt and burden it is to live life as a man in society" and not "emote" our innermost feelings and emotions on women who cannot and don't want to solve a MAN'S PROBLEMS. Only a man can solve his own problems in the Grace of God in this life.

As a man, another hard life lesson you must fully learn and accept is *WOMEN DO NOT WANT TO, CANNOT AND SHOULD NOT SOLVE YOUR OWN PROBLEMS*. Get that?

You are the MAN. Man is the God-Ordained head of natural authority over all creation on the earth. Women are the helpmeets of men and do "help, assist, and support" our many responsibilities and duties in society as it comes to being our wives and mothers raising our children; but ONLY MEN are the CAPTAINS of this ship called life. And as natural LEADER only the MAN has to be the strong one to stir the ship in the right course. Women are designed by God to be only our "helpers" but they are NOT our "guardians, providers, protectors and leaders"; those are natural masculine men-only roles we do.

That said, just to "open up the waters" of consciousness and self-awareness all men must know this personally if not "instinctively" if they are to be on the right course to becoming all that God wants His Men to be.

Saying all this in *LOVE* as this is therapeutic "preaching" to my own self and soul. I need this and so does every living, breathing man and young boy walking the face of this earth. Amen.

~ Bro. New Man

Women Want A "Man's Attention"

When a woman can't get a man's attention directly in person for him to look at her and/or talk to her; she'll often try the slick tactic of trying to physically get in your way to stall him and block his exit since she knows it's "socially-taboo" for a man to hit a woman or she'll ask a question in a group of people in hopes that that man of her interest will turn his head around to look at her.

... Now there's definitely much more to this subject at hand of a woman's innate desire and "craving" for a (worthy) man's attention she deems worthy to give her attention to. I'm only scratching the surface of a very in-depth subject of men and women for an "opener". (God-willing, more knowledge and insight shall be delved into in later times... Amen.)

This is instinctually socio-sexual behaviour in the woman being exercised here.

Low-ranking socio-sexual men like "homeless men" or the "dregs" of society are not the kind of men top-class or really "average woman" want to get attention from; women want *good* personal attention from high-quality top class men.

It's an observable reality amongst people, men and women alike in public of society. Amen.

Withstanding Women's Negative Emotional Nuisances

When a woman ceaselessly annoys and irritates you by constantly criticizing or "talking over you", just steal your mind as best you can to withstand any psychological emotional and mental distress you may be feeling and physically move your body and WALK AWAY from the woman (taking any of your important possessions with you) and keep on going your way.

ONLY Get Married And Have A Family And Kids When You Are Financially Stable And Have Your Life Together

UNLESS you hear God’s Voice telling you to marry a particular woman according to His Timing, you are much better off being prepared in your life for having a wife and a family.

For these reasons EVERYONE should be voluntary celibates unless they plan to marry to have sex with someone they can deal with spending the rest of their lives together.

This is the irrefutable CONCLUSION of sex in long-term relationships if you want to obey God by obeying His Commandments in His Word.

Unfortunately, having sex outside of marriage in the “hookup relationships” (short-term or long-term) does not really matter in many minds of unsaved unbelievers and “carnal-minded” born again believers who “can’t help themselves” but to fulfill the worldly lusts of the flesh in FORNICATION.

The Model for relationships GOD laid out is found in the Beginning of the World in Genesis.

MARRIAGE is the ultimate intimate relationship between the sexes: male and female, men and women.

The sinful world we live in comes up with many “strange sinful ideas” on “relationships” like the ABOMINATION of “sodomite marriage” that is ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTINGIN THE SIGHT OF GOD.

As Christians we OBEY ONLY GOD’S WORD when it comes to the ONLY relationship we can have sex in: MARRIAGE.

Any Bible-believing Christian knows marriage is the ONLY way to have sex by GOD’S PERMISSION even if we may sin against God (and ourselves) by fornication.

KJV 1 Corinthians 6:18-20,

18 Flee Fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.

19 What? Know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?

20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.

The Bible is clear and simple on what we should and should not do.

Let’s not “over-complicate” and just take what the WORD says at FACE-VALUE looking directly from the pages and obey and do them.

Ultimately, end relationships with people you consider for marriage on “good terms” and “ease out” of their causing as little pain and grief as you can and pray the best for them.

Instead of possible husbands and wives, they may become (lifelong) “friends” or “colleagues” or some kind of “friendly association” from a shared past.

Be VERY careful that you don’t redevelop feelings or connections with people you considered for marriage or that can cause jaded, bitter resentments between you and them when they see you married with your lifetime partner.

You will know what you are dealing with if you, your wife/husband and ex-marriage prospect(s) “meet up”.

Things may also be “different” if your former “courtship date” is married; so tactfully behave with respect always standing by your husband/wife to show you are committed to each other for a lifetime.

KJV James 4:4-10,

4 Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? Whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.

5 Do ye think that the scripture saith in vain, The spirit that dwelleth in us lusteth to envy?

6 But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble.

7 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.

8 Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded.

9 Be afflicted, and mourn, and weep: let your laughter be turned to mourning, and your joy to heaviness.

10 Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up.

KJV Luke 20:34-36,

34 And Jesus answering them said unto them, The children of this world marry, and are given in marriage:

35 But they which shall be accounted worthy to obtain that world, and the resurrection from the dead, neither marry, nor are given in marriage:

36 Neither can they die any more: for they are equal unto the angels; and are the children of God, being the children of the resurrection.

Recognizing And Passing A Woman's "Fitness Tests" And Overcoming And Anticipating Resolutions To Her Emotional Mood Swings

KJV Proverbs 30:20, Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness.

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If a woman gives you a rotten, mean, bitter-looking “stink-eye” of contempt and disgust at YOU as an attractive, dominant man of God; keep and maintain a normal, “calm” look on your face as if you never saw the ugly, sad expression on her face and go about FOCUSING on your mission.

Do not let her angry face bother and distract YOUR attention.

You know (are aware) she is angry but do NOT let her get the idea you know in HER mind.

You would be playing into her “emotional manipulation” and she will SENSE that “weakness” in you and if she has the chance will use YOUR SENSITIVITY against you any way she can for her benefit.

Women's Emotionalism

When a woman is in a sad, “sympathizing” mood say something to reassure she will be okay like: “Yeah, that’s bad what they did, I hear you, that’s not right but it’ll pass…” (nod head with calm “closed smile”).

When a woman’s REALLY upset and angry in a fit she will yell, scream, stomp her feet and talk about how bad she had it or “has it” and say things like:

Oh! I told you not to do that!

Why did you do this to me?!

All I’ve been through and you don’t appreciate me.

I’ve had a hard life and I deserve better than this! You keep me stressed-out and I am never safe.

Never can catch a break. 

Every time I come home there’s no telling what you did.  

You bring attention to this house every time you go out and put me in danger.  

Oh [stomps feet], I just can’t understand you!

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