It's no secret: women hate "weak men".
All things being honest here it should read women instinctually hate weakness in men that then the actual men themselves.
That said, here's another "branch" of the subject on women's contempt for "weakness in men".
A major challenge and struggle in life all men must endure is to be able to personally "deal with their feelings" without going into fearful despair and hopelessness over their lot in life.
Women "in public" say they want a man to "share his feelings" but in all honestly (and I speak this from sore in-depth, raw personal experience here) in REAL LIFE REALITY the real truth on this is women HATE a man who "shows his actual feelings" to her. She sees it as effeminate "complaining" and WEAKNESS in the man and it actually is if the man grovels in self-pity of himself.
Don't do it if you really can I advise. Just shrug off her "ungeniuene" offers as "Nah, I'm just tired and need to get my mind clear" or some such comment; change the subject of conversation if you need to or say you have something you need to do and leave her there to go on.
Don't "fall for it" when a woman constantly asks you "how are you?" to sniff out your innermost feelings and emotions if you are feeling sad or depressed; it is WEAKNESS she instinctively does not like and is not attracted to.
If you the man go down the whole tribe suffers; so be strong and put on a "good, happy face" and be that likable fun-loving man people want to be around.
Now, no man is perfect and without weakness in the flesh in this earthly life. Only God Almighty, Lord Jesus Christ Himself was the Perfect, Strongest Man that walked the face of the earth and even He dealt with deep personal sorrow, and anguish of heart but He didn't "melt down" wallowing in self-pity of "woe-is-me" attitude like we men sinners do when we are "in pain".
I've just felt led to share this very important reality of life with my fellow brothers of Christ and men in general concerning women in society.
It's not at all "bad" that women hate "weakness in men" as I hate "weakness in myself" as well as a MAN.
Thing is, the flip side of the coin is women in reality do not have the emotional capacity to give "empathy" to said men they instinctively categorize as "weak". Men do.
Therefore the burden falls to the MEN to help and "pick up" our fallen brothers in distress when they are down and not "kick them down" as bullies do. That's not the "Christ-like" response to those in despair.
Now there's so much more to this subject I need to elaborate on and explain to many young men and boys who are absolutely clueless in life with dealing with real life women in the real life real world that it's on my heart and spirit heavily to discuss upon.
Knowledge without real world application is futile. *APPLIED KNOWLEDGE* is *POWER* O brethren.
Lord-willing, I've been quite silent on the development of this blog for a very long time now but I have not at all forgot this work I've started in the Lord. I intend to finish it by His Grace.
So... for the sake of this post, the "moral" of this brief post, men, is for us to "personally manage our own deep feelings in PRAYER unto the Lord Jesus Christ Who Knows the pain, hurt and burden it is to live life as a man in society" and not "emote" our innermost feelings and emotions on women who cannot and don't want to solve a MAN'S PROBLEMS. Only a man can solve his own problems in the Grace of God in this life.
As a man, another hard life lesson you must fully learn and accept is *WOMEN DO NOT WANT TO, CANNOT AND SHOULD NOT SOLVE YOUR OWN PROBLEMS*. Get that?
You are the MAN. Man is the God-Ordained head of natural authority over all creation on the earth. Women are the helpmeets of men and do "help, assist, and support" our many responsibilities and duties in society as it comes to being our wives and mothers raising our children; but ONLY MEN are the CAPTAINS of this ship called life. And as natural LEADER only the MAN has to be the strong one to stir the ship in the right course. Women are designed by God to be only our "helpers" but they are NOT our "guardians, providers, protectors and leaders"; those are natural masculine men-only roles we do.
That said, just to "open up the waters" of consciousness and self-awareness all men must know this personally if not "instinctively" if they are to be on the right course to becoming all that God wants His Men to be.
Saying all this in *LOVE* as this is therapeutic "preaching" to my own self and soul. I need this and so does every living, breathing man and young boy walking the face of this earth. Amen.
~ Bro. New Man
All things being honest here it should read women instinctually hate weakness in men that then the actual men themselves.
That said, here's another "branch" of the subject on women's contempt for "weakness in men".
A major challenge and struggle in life all men must endure is to be able to personally "deal with their feelings" without going into fearful despair and hopelessness over their lot in life.
Women "in public" say they want a man to "share his feelings" but in all honestly (and I speak this from sore in-depth, raw personal experience here) in REAL LIFE REALITY the real truth on this is women HATE a man who "shows his actual feelings" to her. She sees it as effeminate "complaining" and WEAKNESS in the man and it actually is if the man grovels in self-pity of himself.
Don't do it if you really can I advise. Just shrug off her "ungeniuene" offers as "Nah, I'm just tired and need to get my mind clear" or some such comment; change the subject of conversation if you need to or say you have something you need to do and leave her there to go on.
Don't "fall for it" when a woman constantly asks you "how are you?" to sniff out your innermost feelings and emotions if you are feeling sad or depressed; it is WEAKNESS she instinctively does not like and is not attracted to.
If you the man go down the whole tribe suffers; so be strong and put on a "good, happy face" and be that likable fun-loving man people want to be around.
Now, no man is perfect and without weakness in the flesh in this earthly life. Only God Almighty, Lord Jesus Christ Himself was the Perfect, Strongest Man that walked the face of the earth and even He dealt with deep personal sorrow, and anguish of heart but He didn't "melt down" wallowing in self-pity of "woe-is-me" attitude like we men sinners do when we are "in pain".
I've just felt led to share this very important reality of life with my fellow brothers of Christ and men in general concerning women in society.
It's not at all "bad" that women hate "weakness in men" as I hate "weakness in myself" as well as a MAN.
Thing is, the flip side of the coin is women in reality do not have the emotional capacity to give "empathy" to said men they instinctively categorize as "weak". Men do.
Therefore the burden falls to the MEN to help and "pick up" our fallen brothers in distress when they are down and not "kick them down" as bullies do. That's not the "Christ-like" response to those in despair.
Now there's so much more to this subject I need to elaborate on and explain to many young men and boys who are absolutely clueless in life with dealing with real life women in the real life real world that it's on my heart and spirit heavily to discuss upon.
Knowledge without real world application is futile. *APPLIED KNOWLEDGE* is *POWER* O brethren.
Lord-willing, I've been quite silent on the development of this blog for a very long time now but I have not at all forgot this work I've started in the Lord. I intend to finish it by His Grace.
So... for the sake of this post, the "moral" of this brief post, men, is for us to "personally manage our own deep feelings in PRAYER unto the Lord Jesus Christ Who Knows the pain, hurt and burden it is to live life as a man in society" and not "emote" our innermost feelings and emotions on women who cannot and don't want to solve a MAN'S PROBLEMS. Only a man can solve his own problems in the Grace of God in this life.
As a man, another hard life lesson you must fully learn and accept is *WOMEN DO NOT WANT TO, CANNOT AND SHOULD NOT SOLVE YOUR OWN PROBLEMS*. Get that?
You are the MAN. Man is the God-Ordained head of natural authority over all creation on the earth. Women are the helpmeets of men and do "help, assist, and support" our many responsibilities and duties in society as it comes to being our wives and mothers raising our children; but ONLY MEN are the CAPTAINS of this ship called life. And as natural LEADER only the MAN has to be the strong one to stir the ship in the right course. Women are designed by God to be only our "helpers" but they are NOT our "guardians, providers, protectors and leaders"; those are natural masculine men-only roles we do.
That said, just to "open up the waters" of consciousness and self-awareness all men must know this personally if not "instinctively" if they are to be on the right course to becoming all that God wants His Men to be.
Saying all this in *LOVE* as this is therapeutic "preaching" to my own self and soul. I need this and so does every living, breathing man and young boy walking the face of this earth. Amen.
~ Bro. New Man
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