A Christian Real Man

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Wednesday, September 23, 2015

ONLY Get Married And Have A Family And Kids When You Are Financially Stable And Have Your Life Together

UNLESS you hear God’s Voice telling you to marry a particular woman according to His Timing, you are much better off being prepared in your life for having a wife and a family.

For these reasons EVERYONE should be voluntary celibates unless they plan to marry to have sex with someone they can deal with spending the rest of their lives together.

This is the irrefutable CONCLUSION of sex in long-term relationships if you want to obey God by obeying His Commandments in His Word.

Unfortunately, having sex outside of marriage in the “hookup relationships” (short-term or long-term) does not really matter in many minds of unsaved unbelievers and “carnal-minded” born again believers who “can’t help themselves” but to fulfill the worldly lusts of the flesh in FORNICATION.

The Model for relationships GOD laid out is found in the Beginning of the World in Genesis.

MARRIAGE is the ultimate intimate relationship between the sexes: male and female, men and women.

The sinful world we live in comes up with many “strange sinful ideas” on “relationships” like the ABOMINATION of “sodomite marriage” that is ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTINGIN THE SIGHT OF GOD.

As Christians we OBEY ONLY GOD’S WORD when it comes to the ONLY relationship we can have sex in: MARRIAGE.

Any Bible-believing Christian knows marriage is the ONLY way to have sex by GOD’S PERMISSION even if we may sin against God (and ourselves) by fornication.

KJV 1 Corinthians 6:18-20,
18 Flee Fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.

19 What? Know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?

20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.

The Bible is clear and simple on what we should and should not do.

Let’s not “over-complicate” and just take what the WORD says at FACE-VALUE looking directly from the pages and obey and do them.

Ultimately, end relationships with people you consider for marriage on “good terms” and “ease out” of their causing as little pain and grief as you can and pray the best for them.

Instead of possible husbands and wives, they may become (lifelong) “friends” or “colleagues” or some kind of “friendly association” from a shared past.

Be VERY careful that you don’t redevelop feelings or connections with people you considered for marriage or that can cause jaded, bitter resentments between you and them when they see you married with your lifetime partner.

You will know what you are dealing with if you, your wife/husband and ex-marriage prospect(s) “meet up”.

Things may also be “different” if your former “courtship date” is married; so tactfully behave with respect always standing by your husband/wife to show you are committed to each other for a lifetime.

KJV James 4:4-10,
4 Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? Whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.

5 Do ye think that the scripture saith in vain, The spirit that dwelleth in us lusteth to envy?

6 But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble.

7 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.

8 Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded.

9 Be afflicted, and mourn, and weep: let your laughter be turned to mourning, and your joy to heaviness.

10 Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up.

KJV Luke 20:34-36,
34 And Jesus answering them said unto them, The children of this world marry, and are given in marriage:

35 But they which shall be accounted worthy to obtain that world, and the resurrection from the dead, neither marry, nor are given in marriage:
36 Neither can they die any more: for they are equal unto the angels; and are the children of God, being the children of the resurrection.

Wednesday, September 16, 2015

Recognizing And Passing A Woman's "Fitness Tests" And Overcoming And Anticipating Resolutions To Her Emotional Mood Swings



KJV Proverbs 30:20, Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness.

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If a woman gives you a rotten, mean, bitter-looking “stink-eye” of contempt and disgust at YOU as an attractive, dominant man of God; keep and maintain a normal, “calm” look on your face as if you never saw the ugly, sad expression on her face and go about FOCUSING on your mission.

Do not let her angry face bother and distract YOUR attention.

You know (are aware) she is angry but do NOT let her get the idea you know in HER mind.
You would be playing into her “emotional manipulation” and she will SENSE that “weakness” in you and if she has the chance will use YOUR SENSITIVITY against you any way she can for her benefit.

Women's Emotionalism

When a woman is in a sad, “sympathizing” mood say something to reassure she will be okay like: “Yeah, that’s bad what they did, I hear you, that’s not right but it’ll pass…” (nod head with calm “closed smile”).
When a woman’s REALLY upset and angry in a fit she will yell, scream, stomp her feet and talk about how bad she had it or “has it” and say things like:
Oh! I told you not to do that!
Why did you do this to me?!
All I’ve been through and you don’t appreciate me.
I’ve had a hard life and I deserve better than this! You keep me stressed-out and I am never safe.
Never can catch a break. 
Every time I come home there’s no telling what you did.  
You bring attention to this house every time you go out and put me in danger.  
Oh [stomps feet], I just can’t understand you!
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Godly, Christ-Honouring Natural Masculinity And Manhood

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Amen.