Women's Hypergamous "Wandering Eyes"...

As an attractive dominant man going about life you may instinctively notice that women look at you with "hypergamous" eye-gazing stares and "looks" of instinctive (sexual) "attraction".

Thing is, the problem with this is if you are an unsaved person who gives into your natural sexual drive in "lust" you'll "fall prey" for the TEMPTATIONS of looking these women back in the "eye gaze" if you don't "re-focus" your eyes on what you should be focused on and doing.

You'll notice women already in boyfriend and "married" relationships hearing their "partner" talk to them but then the women already in relationship let their instinctual hypergamous instincts get the best of them and they "sneak off" unsuspectingly "quick looks" and "glances" in your visual direction in hope that you'll "notice" and "respond" to their more base, primitive instinctual attraction without regard to doing what's right "morally"; because the women are already in a fashion with a man but they give off that "eye gaze" of hypergamous sexual attraction to you that implies they would "replace" their current partner for an "upgrade" in you if you were to "act on" getting with the woman and displacing her current man.

It's animalistic and base; but it's true.

The same can be said if you actually "fall for" this unconscious and sometimes "conscious" action of a woman choosing to look at you in instinctual attraction; you are the biggest fool involved.

Keep in mind just as the woman has "checked you out" hypergamously as an "upgrade" to her current mate; the same can be said that YOU are a "downgrade" if a "better man" than you appears in her vision and she sizes him up to you in social and sexual dominance and instinctually figures he's a "better man" than you biologically-speaking.

It's not about "love" at all but pure, base, natural sexual attraction of hypergamous selection.

Here's a saying to keep in mind O men: "Women lie, but hypergamy does not."

If a woman's "hypergamy" judges you to be a "lesser man" in comparison to another man in biology; it's usually true... Amen.

Men: Keep Your "Feelings" To Yourself (Or Talk Only Amongst Fellow Men About Them...)

It's no secret: women hate "weak men".

All things being honest here it should read women instinctually hate weakness in men that then the actual men themselves.

That said, here's another "branch" of the subject on women's contempt for "weakness in men".

A major challenge and struggle in life all men must endure is to be able to personally "deal with their feelings" without going into fearful despair and hopelessness over their lot in life.

Women "in public" say they want a man to "share his feelings" but in all honestly (and I speak this from sore in-depth, raw personal experience here) in REAL LIFE REALITY the real truth on this is women HATE a man who "shows his actual feelings" to her. She sees it as effeminate "complaining" and WEAKNESS in the man and it actually is if the man grovels in self-pity of himself.

Don't do it if you really can I advise. Just shrug off her "ungeniuene" offers as "Nah, I'm just tired and need to get my mind clear" or some such comment; change the subject of conversation if you need to or say you have something you need to do and leave her there to go on.

Don't "fall for it" when a woman constantly asks you "how are you?" to sniff out your innermost feelings and emotions if you are feeling sad or depressed; it is WEAKNESS she instinctively does not like and is not attracted to.

If you the man go down the whole tribe suffers; so be strong and put on a "good, happy face" and be that likable fun-loving man people want to be around.

Now, no man is perfect and without weakness in the flesh in this earthly life. Only God Almighty, Lord Jesus Christ Himself was the Perfect, Strongest Man that walked the face of the earth and even He dealt with deep personal sorrow, and anguish of heart but He didn't "melt down" wallowing in self-pity of "woe-is-me" attitude like we men sinners do when we are "in pain".

I've just felt led to share this very important reality of life with my fellow brothers of Christ and men in general concerning women in society.

It's not at all "bad" that women hate "weakness in men" as I hate "weakness in myself" as well as a MAN.

Thing is, the flip side of the coin is women in reality do not have the emotional capacity to give "empathy" to said men they instinctively categorize as "weak". Men do.

Therefore the burden falls to the MEN to help and "pick up" our fallen brothers in distress when they are down and not "kick them down" as bullies do. That's not the "Christ-like" response to those in despair.

Now there's so much more to this subject I need to elaborate on and explain to many young men and boys who are absolutely clueless in life with dealing with real life women in the real life real world that it's on my heart and spirit heavily to discuss upon.

Knowledge without real world application is futile. *APPLIED KNOWLEDGE* is *POWER* O brethren.

Lord-willing, I've been quite silent on the development of this blog for a very long time now but I have not at all forgot this work I've started in the Lord. I intend to finish it by His Grace.

So... for the sake of this post, the "moral" of this brief post, men, is for us to "personally manage our own deep feelings in PRAYER unto the Lord Jesus Christ Who Knows the pain, hurt and burden it is to live life as a man in society" and not "emote" our innermost feelings and emotions on women who cannot and don't want to solve a MAN'S PROBLEMS. Only a man can solve his own problems in the Grace of God in this life.

As a man, another hard life lesson you must fully learn and accept is *WOMEN DO NOT WANT TO, CANNOT AND SHOULD NOT SOLVE YOUR OWN PROBLEMS*. Get that?

You are the MAN. Man is the God-Ordained head of natural authority over all creation on the earth. Women are the helpmeets of men and do "help, assist, and support" our many responsibilities and duties in society as it comes to being our wives and mothers raising our children; but ONLY MEN are the CAPTAINS of this ship called life. And as natural LEADER only the MAN has to be the strong one to stir the ship in the right course. Women are designed by God to be only our "helpers" but they are NOT our "guardians, providers, protectors and leaders"; those are natural masculine men-only roles we do.

That said, just to "open up the waters" of consciousness and self-awareness all men must know this personally if not "instinctively" if they are to be on the right course to becoming all that God wants His Men to be.

Saying all this in *LOVE* as this is therapeutic "preaching" to my own self and soul. I need this and so does every living, breathing man and young boy walking the face of this earth. Amen.

~ Bro. New Man

Women Want A "Man's Attention"

When a woman can't get a man's attention directly in person for him to look at her and/or talk to her; she'll often try the slick tactic of trying to physically get in your way to stall him and block his exit since she knows it's "socially-taboo" for a man to hit a woman or she'll ask a question in a group of people in hopes that that man of her interest will turn his head around to look at her.

... Now there's definitely much more to this subject at hand of a woman's innate desire and "craving" for a (worthy) man's attention she deems worthy to give her attention to. I'm only scratching the surface of a very in-depth subject of men and women for an "opener". (God-willing, more knowledge and insight shall be delved into in later times... Amen.)

This is instinctually socio-sexual behaviour in the woman being exercised here.

Low-ranking socio-sexual men like "homeless men" or the "dregs" of society are not the kind of men top-class or really "average woman" want to get attention from; women want *good* personal attention from high-quality top class men.

It's an observable reality amongst people, men and women alike in public of society. Amen.